Valentine’s Day is sneaking up on us, and boy, didn’t the last couple of years just sprint by like they were in a hurry? Thanks, pandemic! But hey, we’re still on the hook for the most romantic day of the year, and considering the whirlwind of 2020 and 2021, there’s some extra pressure to make 2022’s Valentine’s Day truly spectacular. For couples in long-distance relationships, it’s like a challenge accepted. Time to turn up the romance and make it one for the books.
Here are some fantastic activities to do on Valentine’s Day to make it extra special.
Be The First Person They Hear In The Morning And The Last Person They Hear Before Going To Bed.
A good morning text might seem like a little thing, but it’s got some serious magic in it. Why, you ask? Well, it’s like a little reminder that you’re the first thing on their mind when they wake up. Who doesn’t absolutely adore the feeling of knowing their special someone is thinking about them right from the crack of dawn? It’s like a warm, cozy hug through your phone screen, and I bet it’s gonna light up their whole day like a thousand-watt smile.
Good night text messages can be incredibly romantic, and they can make someone feel loved and cared for.
If you’re both comfortable, call them. Whenever my partner asks me to wake him up, especially if he has an early morning appointment, I happily agreed since I love hearing his sleepy voice.
Virtual Dinner Date
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you’re probably already an expert at staying in touch when you can’t be in the same place at the same time (or even the same time zone). However, even long-distance couples may find themselves in a rut, so it may be time to shake things up with new date night activities especially on Valentine’s Day.
Things to Prepare:
- Time and Date – Pick a time that works for both of you—one where you’re both free to relax and enjoy each other’s company. No distractions, no rushing—just pure quality time.
- Food – We decided that I’d be in charge of the meal, so I asked him what he was craving and added a few surprise treats I knew he’d love. Nothing beats sharing a meal, even from miles away!
- Location – Find a quiet, private space where you won’t be interrupted. Turn off unnecessary devices (except the one you’re using for the call, of course!), and make sure your internet connection is solid—because a dropped video call in the middle of a romantic moment? Major buzzkill. Set the vibe by arranging your space like a cozy restaurant if that’s your thing.
- Fun Virtual Date Activities – Have a virtual date but aren’t sure what to do? Of course, there’s the obvious—talking and getting to know each other. However, if you’re past that stage and want to add some fun activity to the date, here are my recommendation:
- Virtual museum tour – Share your screen and explore art and history together.
- Online board games – A little friendly competition never hurt!
- Virtual karaoke – Whether you’re a superstar or off-key, it’s all about the laughs.
- Netflix date – Watch a movie or a comedy special together.
- Go on a walk together – Call each other while strolling through your neighborhoods.
- Trivia night – Test your knowledge and see who’s the ultimate quiz champ.
- Take an online class together – Cooking, painting, or even learning a new language!
- The Outfit Glow-Up: Most days, I’m all about cozy PJs and casual vibes, but for this special Valentine’s date, I had to level up! I found the perfect dress, paired it with my long-neglected nude heels, and topped it off with the stunning ruby necklace he gave me on my birthday. As for him? His outfit is a mystery, but I’m secretly hoping those Star Wars cufflinks I gifted him make a dapper appearance.
He’s a massive Star Wars fan—like, the kind who can quote entire scenes, debate fan theories for hours, and has lightsabers lying around.
Use Delivery Services To Surprise Them With Their Favorite Meal
You won’t believe how my mind was blown when I discovered the French food delivery scene. I mean, gourmet cuisine delivered straight to your door? Ooh la la, yes, please!
My boyfriend’s sister dropped some serious knowledge, and it turns out they’re all about Uber Eats too—it’s a total game-changer. All you need is that trusty app on your phone and your debit/credit card (just make sure your bank’s cool with international merchants—no one wants a foodie meltdown at checkout)!
Now, here’s the fun part: my boyfriend lives in the beautiful city of Marseille, France, and ordering food for him from across the world? It’s like a little adventure. But thank goodness for Google Maps, this mission is totally doable!
I’ve been using Google Maps to hunt down each restaurant I want to order from. Here’s where it gets tricky though—some of these spots have multiple branches nearby, so it’s like navigating a culinary maze!
But here’s the best part: a lot of these restaurants have active Facebook pages! I sent them a message a week ago, and guess what? I placed my order, made my payment—it’s like having a personal food concierge right at my fingertips.
Just a little heads-up—be mindful of those time zones. In France, some places like to take it easy on Sundays, Mondays, and holidays, so plan your feast wisely! Bon appétit, and may your foodie adventures be full of flavor and totally time zone-proof!
Here’s what you’ll need to make sure your food delivery goes off without a hitch:
- What to order & how much – Decide on the delicious dishes and the perfect portions!
- Delivery time & date – Pick when you want it to arrive for maximum freshness and yum-factor.
- Recipient’s details – Be sure to include their name, address, and mobile number for a smooth delivery!
- Packaging preferences – If you’ve got any special requests for packaging, don’t forget to mention them!
I’ve tried it a few times, and let me tell you—it was like a refreshing breeze on the hottest summer day! The service wasn’t just good, it was next level amazing—seriously, above and beyond!
And here’s the best part: it earned me some serious brownie points with his mom! So not only did my taste buds get a happy dance, but I also scored extra cool points with the fam. Total win-win, right?
Mail Them A Care Package Of Their Favorite Things
Putting together a personalized care package for that special someone is like sending a little piece of your heart straight to their door.
Your partner will absolutely feel the love, and there’ll be no question about how much they mean to you.
Here’s the secret sauce: make it all about them. Tailor the package to match their vibe, their passions, their unique style. Show them that you’ve really tuned in to what they love—it’s like sending a love letter without saying a word!
How I Did It: So, I totally lucked out by becoming besties with his siblings, who were my undercover partners for this whole mission. Last year, I ordered some goodies online that shipped straight to their place, but for the rest of the items, I went old-school and hit up shops near him. And get this—his amazing siblings superheroed it and hand-delivered the package.
Here’s the pro tip: give yourself a few weeks’ head start. That way, your love-filled package arrives at just the right moment, on the nose for Valentine’s Day! Timing is everything in the love game, my friends!

Make Them a Spotify Playlist
Music is hands down one of the best ways to amp up a date night! A perfect love song can transform any moment, making it unforgettable—whether you’re cooking a romantic dinner together, battling it out in a board game, or just lying back and stargazing. It’s like the soundtrack to your love story.

Exchange Fragrances
It’s wild how, in a world of video calls, we’ve started craving each other’s scents. My partner, Grayson, has this amazing attention to detail, and he instantly spotted my perfume collection, nailing down my all-time favorite.
Wanting to get a little crafty, Grayson and I decided to experiment. Since we couldn’t use our perfumes, we got creative with locally available essential oils—and oh my gosh, it was such a brilliant idea!
Grayson’s signature scent, Tobacco Oud by Tom Ford, gives off these rich, whiskey, tobacco, sandalwood, vanilla, and cedarwood vibes. We found the perfect match at Young Living. My go-to fragrance is a fresh burst of floral magic—just like walking through a field of daisies. You can grab that beauty on Amazon.
And here’s the fun part: if you’re feeling DIY vibes, we’ve got a super easy video guide to show you how to make your own scents come alive. Time to get creative and make it all smell like magic!
Take Them Around The Neighborhood.
As a total travel enthusiast, I’ve always been hooked on discovering new destinations and diving into the local culture. So imagine my excitement when I found out my partner shares the same wanderlust! It’s a total win-win because not only do I get to explore new places, but now he’s all in, asking for personal tours of the spots I visit. It’s like our very own adventure club, and honestly, I’m loving every single minute of it.

Watch A Sporting Event Together.
If you and your sweetheart are sports fans, watching games together is a total blast! But here’s the fun twist: your favorite team might not be playing, or—gasp—you could end up cheering for rival teams! Don’t worry though, the trusty ESPN app or DVR is here to save the day so you can catch those replays and relive all the game-day excitement. It’s all part of the sports-loving adventure, and hey, a little friendly rivalry just adds to the fun, right?
Or Stream A Concert Together.
If you and your music-loving partner are in the mood for an epic date idea, streaming a virtual concert is the way to go! It’s like having a live show right at your doorstep. Just invite your significant other over, get cozy, and dive into the magic of your favorite band. With so many concerts available online, you’ll have no shortage of amazing options. So, dim the lights, crank up the volume, and let the music set the stage for a date night like no other
Make A Music Video.
When it comes to spicing up your love life, romantic date night ideas should be all about fun and excitement, right? Well, we took it to the next level by creating our own music video to a song we both love! Grayson went all out, singing a Beatles medley, while I added a special touch by strumming the ukulele. It was such a creative and heartwarming adventure that brought us closer together—and honestly, it was a perfect way to enjoy some quality one-on-one time.
Take A Matching Photo In Various Places.
We’re both wanderlusters at heart, always itching to explore new corners of the globe. What’s even more exciting is that we’ve shared some unforgettable spots together—like tossing coins into Rome’s Trevi Fountain, striking a pose with Nice’s Apollo Statue, floating in Israel’s Dead Sea, and soaking in the beauty of Salamanca’s Plaza Mayor. We’ve even snapped tons of photos at these places, and I’ve been bugging him for copies so I can create an epic collage.
But wait, it gets even better. I have this little habit of pestering him with “couple selfies” during video chats—whether we’re both getting our Covid-19 boosters, hitting the gym, or making dinner in our matching pajamas. All those cute moments have been printed, wrapped up, and are ready to be unveiled on Valentine’s Day. I’m seriously bubbling with excitement—it’s going to be the ultimate surprise!
Plan Your Next Date/Staycation. Or Vacation.
With our busy lives always in full swing, Grayson and I found ourselves constantly in work-mode, even in the comfort of our cozy flats. It was so tough to hit the relaxation button when there was that constant pull to dive back into the work whirlwind.
So, we decided to make a pact during our staycations—a truce to keep work far, far away. No emails, no quick checks, nada. We set those notifications on snooze and kicked any potential distractions to the curb. It’s all about being in the moment, and we even have a little note reminding us not to let work crash the staycation party. After all, relaxation time is sacred.
Final Thoughts
Valentine’s Day is about so much more than just chocolates and roses—it’s a day to celebrate love in all its beautiful forms! Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, planning an epic surprise date night, or just sending a heartfelt text, the magic of Valentine’s Day is in the thought, effort, and affection you pour into it. It’s a reminder that love knows no boundaries and can be expressed in a million creative ways.
So, as we all gear up for another Valentine’s Day, remember that the most special moments are the ones you create with genuine love and thoughtfulness. Whether you’re sharing a virtual concert, making memories with DIY projects, or simply sending a good morning text, this day is all about cherishing the connections that light up our lives. Happy Valentine’s Day to all the lovers, near and far.
Je t’aime à la folie, Mon Amour.