If you’ve ever wondered what living with a Frenchman is really like, let me tell you—it’s an experience. You’ve probably heard about their snarky remarks, unapologetic honesty, and their talent for playful teasing—and trust me, it’s all true.

When my boyfriend came to visit for a month last December, I got a firsthand crash course in the quirks of sharing a space with a Frenchman. And oh boy, did I learn a lot.

Their loyalty is true and strong but they have little respect for your privacy.

Living with a Frenchman is never boring—trust me! They’re incredibly loyal (when they choose to) and have a strong sense of duty, which is something to admire. But let’s be real—they can also be a little too nosy for their own good. Privacy? Forget about it! If you’re used to keeping things to yourself, be prepared for a Frenchman who wants to know everything. But don’t worry, it all comes from a place of love and genuine care.

And let’s talk about passion—because they have a lot of it. Whether it’s their relationships, their opinions, or just a casual conversation about cheese (yes, really), they bring an intensity and enthusiasm that’s hard to match. One thing’s for sure—life with a French man is never dull.

They will have an opinion about everything.

Living with a Frenchman means saying goodbye to complete peace and quiet! If you’re trying to study or just need a moment to yourself, good luck—French men love to talk and socialize. They’re naturally expressive and might not always understand why you’d want to be alone when there’s a perfectly good conversation to be had!

And let’s talk about their love for food, wine, and deep discussions—because it’s real. Whether it’s debating philosophy over dinner or casually dropping facts about why a certain cheese is superior, you’ll never have a dull moment. Oh, and if you ever need an honest opinion? Just ask. French men don’t hold back! They’ll tell you exactly what they think—so be ready to hear their point of view, even if it completely challenges your own.

French men are actually quite “manly” in the kitchen (or at least my man is).

Living with a Frenchman means never going hungry—especially if he loves to cook! While some say French men aren’t the most manly in the kitchen, that’s definitely not the case for mine. Watching him cook is like watching a chef in his element—effortless, passionate, and always up for experimenting. From classic French dishes to spontaneous culinary creations, he’s never afraid to get his hands dirty. And don’t even get me started on his grilling skills—absolute chef’s kiss!

When it comes to food, he’s definitely the one in charge, and honestly? I wouldn’t have it any other way.

They’re not always punctual.

Living with a Frenchman has taught me one important thing—if you value punctuality, you might need to adjust your expectations. If you’re used to people showing up on time, you might find yourself a little frustrated because Frenchmen aren’t exactly known for their promptness. They don’t see the big deal about being a few minutes (or more) late, and they definitely won’t understand why you’re stressing over it.

But you know what’s funny? Filipinos and French people actually have this in common! Both cultures have a relaxed relationship with time when it comes to events and gatherings. So really, it’s a match made in fashionably late heaven.

They are not into breakfast, oh no, not at all! It’s all about the bread, cheese and wine at dinner time, and then some cake later on.

Living with a Frenchman means embracing a whole new rhythm when it comes to food! For them, breakfast is just a formality—a quick bite to start the day before moving on to more important things. But when dinner rolls around? Oh, that’s when they truly shine!

Living with a Frenchman teaches you that dinner isn’t just a meal; it’s an experience. It’s all about savoring every bite, indulging in good bread, fine cheese, and of course, a perfectly paired French wine. And just when you think the meal is over, think again—because there’s always room for something sweet!

And let’s not forget the ultimate temptation: Crème Brûlée. If there’s one thing you’ll quickly learn when living with a Frenchman, it’s that dessert is never skipped. They might resist a lot of things, but when it comes to that golden, caramelized perfection? Not a chance!

They drop the f-bomb when they eat something delicious.

Living with a Frenchman means witnessing some truly passionate food moments! When they eat something they absolutely love, they don’t just enjoy it—they feel it. And sometimes, that means dropping an enthusiastic “f-bomb” right in the middle of a meal.

Imagine a bite of perfectly aged cheese, a sip of rich Bordeaux, or a spoonful of decadent crème brûlée—suddenly, his eyes close, a look of pure ecstasy spreads across his face, and out comes the unfiltered reaction. For that brief, blissful moment, nothing else matters—just the food and the pleasure it brings.

Living with a Frenchman teaches you that food isn’t just sustenance; it’s an experience, a love affair, and sometimes… an expletive-worthy event.

They don’t really do French kissing.

Living with a Frenchman comes with plenty of surprises, and one of them? The truth about French kissing. While the rest of the world sees it as the ultimate passionate kiss, the French don’t actually do it as often as you’d think. In France, a quick kiss on the lips is more of a casual greeting or a sign of affection—nothing overly intense or dramatic.

From my experience living with a Frenchman, if you’re expecting Hollywood-style, toe-curling, movie-worthy makeout sessions every time, you might be in for a surprise. But when they do kiss with passion, trust me—it’s worth the wait.

They’re passionate about their hobbies.

Living with a Frenchman means embracing adventure—whether you planned to or not! The French are passionate about their hobbies, and you might just find yourself getting swept up in them too. From wine tastings to art exhibits, random pétanque matches, or even an impromptu philosophy discussion at a café, expect to be introduced to activities you never imagined trying.

During my time living with a Frenchman, I’ve picked up new interests and habits that turned out to be both fun and surprisingly beneficial. So, if you’re up for a little spontaneity and a lot of cultural enrichment, buckle up—because life with a Frenchman is never boring!

You will never be able to get away with your bad habits.

Living with a Frenchman means there’s no escaping the truth—whether you like it or not! French men are known for their honesty and directness, so if you have a habit of leaving your room in chaos or indulging in one too many midnight snacks, don’t expect him to just look the other way. He’ll call you out—not to be mean, but because he genuinely wants you to be the best version of yourself.

That’s the beauty of living with a Frenchman—there’s no sugarcoating, no fake compliments, just pure, unfiltered honesty. If you’re looking for a partner who keeps you on your toes and holds you accountable, then a French man is the perfect match.

You will learn more in one day than you have ever done before in your life

Living with a Frenchman is like stepping into a world of endless learning and discovery. In just one day, you’ll absorb more about culture, language, and history than you ever expected. From the perfect way to enjoy cheese and wine to the subtle art of French fashion, every moment feels like an immersive masterclass.

The best part? Living with a Frenchman means you’ll never run out of new things to experience. Whether it’s an impromptu debate, a deep dive into French cinema, or a crash course in effortlessly chic style, it’s an adventure you won’t soon forget.

Takeaway: Living with a Frenchman is an adventure like no other! Your relationship will be full of surprises, cultural quirks, and moments that leave you both amazed and amused. These ten things that shocked me while living with a Frenchman are just the tip of the iceberg—there’s so much more to discover!